“If you spend five minutes complaining, you have just wasted five minutes. If you continue complaining, it won’t be long before they haul you out to a financial desert and there let you choke on the dust of your own regret.”
It’s easy to complain but very tough to take responsibility. You complain which you don’t accept or control. But do you know “the only thing you can control is your reaction.”
Accept the flaws of others, complicacy of the situation, and emotions of the present. Don’t judge rather accept.